I Was One Bad Ride Away From Selling My Harley
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I Was One Bad Ride Away From Selling My Harley.

After 26 years and thousands of miles, I almost gave it all up. Here's what changed.

Mark T.
Mark T. Touring rider, 55 · Updated 4 months ago
My Road Glide in the garage under a cover

For 26 years, that bike was my freedom.

Weekends, rallies, 300 mile days with my wife on the back. Riding across state lines just because the weather looked good. I never once thought about distance. I just rode.

Then about 3 years ago, something changed.

When Every Ride Became a Countdown

It started small. Around the 45 minute mark, my tailbone would start to ache. Not terrible. Just enough to notice.

I'd shift forward. Shift back. Stand on the pegs for a second. It would ease up for a few minutes. Then come back a little worse.

By the time I hit an hour, I was riding one cheek at a time. Trying to take the pressure off one side, then the other. It only helped so much.

"I wasn't riding anymore. I was just managing pain until I could stop."

The first hour used to be when the ride was just getting good. Now it was when the clock started running out.

Some days I'd plan a full afternoon and turn around after 50 miles. Not because I wanted to. Because my tailbone was screaming and I knew it would only get worse.

Riding on a backroad at golden hour, view over the handlebars

Everything I Tried. Nothing That Lasted.

I told myself it was the stock seat. So I spent $450 on an aftermarket one. A well known brand. Custom stitching, premium foam, the whole deal.

It felt amazing for about two weeks. Then the same burning crept back in the same spots. Like the seat had given up.

I tried an air cushion next. Raised me up way too high and felt like sitting on a wobbly balloon. Sold it after three rides.

Then came a foam pad. Then a sheepskin cover. Then padded cycling shorts under my jeans. I even tried rolling up a towel and sitting on it.

Each thing I tried would help for a ride or two. Then the same pain, in the same place, at roughly the same time. Like clockwork.

I'd spent close to $600 and was right back where I started.

A pile of failed seat cushions and gel pads on a workbench

The Part Nobody Talks About

The worst part wasn't the pain itself. It was what the pain was doing to everything else.

I stopped saying yes to group rides. Started checking distances before agreeing to anything. If someone suggested a rally three states over, I'd make an excuse.

I used to be the first one to say let's go. Now I was the one holding everyone back.

My wife noticed. She'd been riding with me for 15 years.

One night she asked me straight. "Are you thinking about selling the bike?"

I didn't answer right away. She already knew.

I had already looked up what mine was worth.

"The hardest part wasn't the pain. It was realizing I might be done."
A couple resting beside their motorcycle at a roadside stop

The Comment That Changed How I Understood the Problem

A few weeks later I was reading a motorcycle forum at midnight. Couldn't sleep. Same old threads about seat pain and which aftermarket seat was the best.

But one comment stopped me cold.

A guy said the problem isn't that the seat is too hard. The problem is that all your weight sits on the same small spots, mile after mile. Your tailbone and sit bones take the entire load. And it doesn't matter how soft the padding is. If the pressure stays in the same place, the pain always comes back.

That hit me like a brick.

I thought about every seat and cushion I'd tried. Every single one felt softer than the last. But the pressure always ended up in the same spots.

Soft foam just compresses flat over time. Once it does, you're sitting on the hard seat pan underneath with a thin layer of crushed material between you and the metal.

More padding doesn't change where your weight goes. It just delays how fast you feel it.

That one idea reframed 3 years of frustration. I wasn't failing because my body couldn't handle riding. The pressure was just never being spread out. It was landing in the same narrow zones every single time.

I started searching for something built around that idea. Not softer. Different.

A motorcycle forum thread about tailbone pain viewed on a phone at night

What I Found

That's how I came across Veyleno. It wasn't like the gel pads I'd seen before.

Instead of one flat slab of gel, it uses individual cells that move independently under your weight. The idea is simple. Instead of letting all the pressure pile into the same two or three spots, the cells flex and spread the load across a wider area.

What made it different

There's a channel cut right down the center, exactly where the tailbone sits. So instead of pressing directly into the sorest spot, it takes the pressure off completely.

The whole thing straps to your seat and sits low. About an inch under your weight. Black, clean, nothing that looks out of place on the bike.

It wasn't trying to be softer. It was trying to put the weight somewhere else.

I almost didn't order it. I'd already wasted hundreds on things that promised comfort and delivered nothing.

But the way this one was built actually matched what I'd just learned about pressure distribution. So I gave it one more shot.

The First Ride

First ride was a 90 minute loop I used to do before the pain took over. A route I knew well enough to notice exactly when the ache would start.

I kept waiting for it. Around the 45 minute mark, where it usually kicked in, nothing happened. At an hour, still nothing. My back felt fine. My tailbone felt fine.

I pulled over at 90 minutes because I'd planned to. Not because I had to.

I sat there on the side of the road for a full minute just trying to figure out if it was real.

"I pulled over because I wanted to. That hadn't happened in 3 years."
Rider standing beside his motorcycle at a scenic overlook at sunset

Four Months Later

That was 4 months ago. Since then I've done three rides over 200 miles. One was a full day, close to 280.

I'm not going to pretend the pain is 100 percent gone on the very longest days. But the difference between now and before is massive.

I'm not shifting every 10 minutes. I'm not counting down the miles. I'm not dreading the ride home.

My wife came on the last two trips and didn't ask to stop once. She actually asked when the next one is.

I'm not selling the bike.

Two Roads

The way I see it, you've got two choices.

You keep doing what you've been doing. New seats, more foam, toughing it out, watching the rides get shorter year after year.

Or you try the one thing that actually changes where the pressure goes instead of just making the surface softer.

I'm not going to tell you what to do. I just know what worked for me after 3 years of nothing working.

One thing worth knowing. Veyleno only sells through their official website. I've seen similar looking products on Amazon for less. They're not the same. The gel structure is different, the channel design is different, and the build quality isn't close. If you're going to try it, get the real one.
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I wish I'd found this 3 years and $600 ago.
But I'm glad I found it before I listed the bike.

From Riders Like You

What Happened After They Stopped Fighting the Seat

Real notes from riders who were one bad trip away from parking the bike for good.

★★★★★

Honestly I almost didn't order it. I'd already burned through two seats and an air pad, so another cushion felt like throwing more money at the same problem. Figured I'd try it and send it back. It's still on the bike 5 months later. That tells you everything.

Dwayne R.
Tulsa, OK
Expected to return it. Didn't.
★★★★★

The gel pad I had before felt great in the driveway and turned into a brick by the first fuel stop. This one is different. It doesn't just feel soft at the start, it actually holds up. That was always the part the others got wrong for me.

Mike P.
Chattanooga, TN
Still comfortable past the first tank.
★★★★★

What sold me was finally understanding the problem. It was never about soft or hard. All my weight was landing on the same two spots the whole ride. The way this spreads it out just made sense. First thing I tried that actually went after the real issue instead of piling on more foam.

Gary L.
Springfield, IL
Finally addressed the actual cause.
★★★★★

I'm not going to tell you it's magic. On a long day I still feel it a little. But I used to be shifting around and standing on the pegs by the 45 minute mark, and now I just don't think about it. My wife noticed I stopped squirming before I did.

Rob T.
Kalamazoo, MI
No more shifting every 10 minutes.
★★★★★

I'd already looked up what my bike was worth. That's how close I was to being done. Did a 230 mile day last month with the guys and made it home without dreading the last hour. First time in a couple years I felt like myself on the bike. Wish I'd found it sooner.

Steve K.
Redding, CA
Back to full-day rides.
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This article reflects the personal experience and opinion of the author. Individual results may vary. This content may contain affiliate links. The product mentioned is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any medical condition. Consult a healthcare professional for persistent pain.